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My Path Blog Tools Rating: Rate This Blog
Creation Date: 06-08-2009 01:55 PM
Linda Eskin
My path to and through Aikido. Observations on Aikido, fitness, happiness, horses, & life, by a 53 y/o sho-dan.

This same blog (with photos and a few additional trivial posts, but without comments) can be found at www.grabmywrist.com.

I train with Dave Goldberg Sensei, at Aikido of San Diego.
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In A-to Z April 2016 Grounded - Stable and Settled Entry Tools Rate This Entry
  #236 New 04-08-2016 04:45 AM
This is the seventh in this series of 26 posts, one of each letter of the alphabet, that I am writing during the Blogging from A to Z Challenge, April 2016. You can find all the posts, as they are published throughout the month, by following the A-to-Z April 2016 tag.


G is for Grounded.

Grounded. We toss the word around a lot. We say someone is really grounded, or that spending time in nature helps us feel grounded. But what is it, really? The dictionary will tell you it means emotionally stable, down-to-earth. That's not a bad place to start.

One way to think about it is in terms of contrast. In my experience, the opposite of grounded is "in one's head." Flighty, scatterbrained, separate. Thinking about what's going on with us instead of experiencing it. Head in the clouds, as opposed to feet on the ground.

We are generally happier, less reactive, and more effective, both on and off the mat, when we are present to our actual experience, feeling our way through, connected.


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"When adversity strikes, that's when you have to be the most calm. Take a step back, stay strong, stay grounded and press on."
~ LL Cool J

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Being grounded is a principle we embody in our Aikido training. We recently explored this in a workshop at the dojo. Some of the experiments that Sensei led us through demonstrated how we are more powerful and stable, with less effort, when we are grounded. A simple exercise was physically easier when we simply brought our attention from our forehead to our lower belly - getting out of our head, and into our gut, moving from our center.

This is only one instance of one of the many embodied principles we focus on in Aikido. We train to be relaxed, confident, and direct, balanced, centered, and receptive, and we do so not by thinking about these as concepts, but through regularly training in their physical expressions. We build them into our bodies as qualities we naturally possess.

Yeah, but what good is it?

We've been rushing around, putting out fires and crashing toward deadlines all day. We find that we are chattering away in our minds, flitting from one worry to the next. We are wound up and uneasy. We can't do our best work, or be present in the moment, in this state. We need to settle down.

Here is an easy sequence you can do to get grounded, anywhere, any time. Try it before returning a phone call to an angry customer, during a long, uncomfortable meeting, or after a stressful conversation. Allow at least one breath (in/out) per step:
  • Stand with your feet about shoulder width apart.
  • Breathe steadily and naturally, without forcing or holding your breath.
  • Let your jaw and tongue be loose and soft.
  • Let your knees bend slightly, just so they are not locked.
  • Let your shoulders hang from your body without tension.
  • Visualize sand pouring down through your body, as it would in an hourglass.
  • Feel your feet connecting with the ground.

See if you find yourself feeling quieter and more relaxed now. You will likely be able to respond calmly and fluidly from this state. You may even find that those around you start to seem more settled, too.

Practice this regularly, and you may find yourself more often and more naturally settling into a powerfully calm, grounded way of being.

Want to learn more?

Paul Linden Sensei, of Being in Movement, does a lot of work in the area of embodiment. He has some great videos demonstrating how our mental or emotional state influences our effectiveness, both in our Aikido practice and out in the world. Here is an excellent playlist of videos on Aiki Somatics with Paul Linden.


Linda Eskin is a writer, Aikido student, personal trainer, horse person (with a pet donkey), and former software/web industry professional (tech comm and UX). She is currently completing two books for students of Aikido, one for children and one for adult beginners. Linda trains with Dave Goldberg Sensei at Aikido of San Diego, in California, and holds the first black belt rank, sho-dan. Sho-dan literally means "beginning rank."
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