heyo. craigs method of measuring sword length is one of the most common.
however, it does not always work as people are proportioned differently.
though its for aiki, and not iai, try this way...
hold the bokken as if it were a sword in a saya in your obi (sharp edge up for my school)
keep your left hand where it is and draw with the right hand in front of you
when your right arm is extended (but not locked out straight), and the kissaki (point) is between the left forefinger and thumb, this is the ideal lenght a sword should be
hope you find one that fits.
also, i think tozando or someone like that do kiddies bokken