Penetrating the Heart of Aikido by Ross Robertson
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February 14th is the day that many people in the world celebrate Saint
Valentine's Day. Ah, romance! On this day especially, people are
encouraged to give precedence to fondness, friendship, affection,
passion, and of course, sex. But in its broadest interpretation,
Valentine's Day is the Day of Love, the Day of the Heart.
As for me, I've always been one of those hopeless romantics. I am
forever drawn to the beautiful, the exotic, the erotic, the
heartbreak, the ache, and the infinite ecstatic joy. And so
Valentine's Day seems to me the one day of the year when people regain
sanity and focus on what really matters. And for all my adult life
February 14th has had another layer of significance.
I began my aikido training in Bill Sosa's dojo in Dallas on
Valentine's Day, 1979. The first time I saw aikido, it was as if an
arrow went straight into my heart. I was in love, and I knew this was
where I belonged. In those days we didn't talk so much about the heart
-- the emphasis was forever on the center, the "one point" around
which all things revolve. Even so, training was consuming, beautiful,
and left us breathless for more.
Years later I had the realization that the heart really is the best
place from which to do and receive aikido after all. When we are full
of fear, when we are focusing on primitive expressions of power, we
tend to close in on ourselves. Posture folds, and our shoulders roll
forward, the head drops. We protect our heart. But when we open up and
embrace our surroundings and circumstances as if greeting a lover,
then everything changes. Our awareness expands, posture is restored,
and all encounters are meetings with the Beloved. For sure, the heart
is tender and vulnerable (though, I have come to believe that only
hard hearts can be broken). It needs a stable and secure base from
which to operate. If the lower center, the seat of power, has not been
developed, the heart cannot take root and unfold its flower. But
sooner or later the opening is necessary and inevitable if we are to
ever engage the world as a lover.
For aikido is about sex. No... Aikido is sex.
Sadly it is not normally permissible to speak of such things. We
usually have to resort to euphemism and allegory (but even these may
have their appeal, like well-chosen adornments whose design will
simultaneously conceal and reveal). I was having a conversation
recently with Henry Kono about O-Sensei's fascination with the Kojiki,
the Japanese creation myth, and I asked if this wasn't really about
sex? Aren't the movements of aikido and the interplay of yin and yang
just expressions of sex on a universal scale? Henry smiled and nodded
as if sharing a secret. He said that he usually has to describe aikido
in mechanical terms, for instance, a rod in a bushing, but really,
we're talking about... you know. He said that if he were to really say
what he meant, people would, you know... "run me out of town or
something." Yeah, we know, Henry.
But today the curtains are parted. The gates are opened, and the veils
slip from the body and fall to the ground like dew on warm grass. For
you see, if you want to understand aikido, yin and yang, or the rest
of the universe for that matter, then look no further. The secret is
nothing more than the male and female, the concave and the convex, the
container and the contained, the attraction, the dating, the mating,
the dance of separating and uniting.
We are all female when we let the world into us. Light and sound enter
our eyes and ears, and the seeds of the universe are planted within
our minds. We are impregnated with ideas and impressions, which we
later birth through our actions. We take in a breath, our lungs are
filled with air, the atmosphere now inside us, creating life. We are
all female, but not always awake.
We are all male when we insert ourselves into the world. We speak and
act, and extend our being into others who may then carry us with
them. We probe and we penetrate, and life or death depend on whether
we enter as an invader or a welcome guest. We exhale, and our breath
mingles with the air, alchemically changed. We are all male, but not
always awake.
In aikido we learn to recognize the hard and the solid, and we make a
receptive opening wherever it extends. We learn to see where we may
safely enter, and there we go. And if all is well, then there is the
enfolding, the embrace, the right fit, the good match. The
conjoining. And yes, out of this there may also be the glad tumble,
and a bit of soreness in the morning.
We are all male and female when we do aikido. These are not genders,
they are capacities and expressions. There is no secret to aikido
other than filling openings (yours or theirs... or both) and never
forcing a fit that isn't right. We may be predominantly male as we
extend, predominantly female as we receive. But at the moment of
joining, we exchange qualities, we may become hermaphroditic, this
part going with that part, here, there. We open, merge, ground,
release. We seek, seize, secure, return, again and again and
again. Aikido is about balance and the interplay of complimentary
elements. Soft and hard, firm and hollow, assertive and receptive,
rough and gentle, dominant and submissive, giving and receiving,
holding and beholding. In and out, in and out, in and out. We are all
doing aikido, all the time, but not always awake.
We all arrive in this world through the same door. We were given the
key at conception. Everything else is just a succession of entrances,
passages, and rooms. The action of our breathing, and the beating of
our heart, the look of your eye, the smell of you in my blood, and the
honey colored sun shining inside my chest... just these things are the
meaning of life. It moves in us from one chamber to the next, our
mischievous child in the night, but it is also our mother and
father. Conceive and give birth, every moment, waking, dreaming. What
else is there to protect, nurture, and defend?
Look at Love
Look at Love...
how it tangles
with the one fallen in love
look at spirit
how it fuses with earth
giving it new life
why are you so busy
with this or that or good or bad
pay attention to how things blend
why talk about all
the known and the unknown
see how unknown merges into the known
why think separately
of this life and the next
when one is born from the last
look at your heart and tongue
one feels but deaf and dumb
the other speaks in words and signs
look at water and fire
earth and wind
enemies and friends all at once
the wolf and the lamb
the lion and the deer
far away yet together
look at the unity of this
spring and winter
manifested in the equinox
you too must mingle my friends
since the earth and the sky
are mingled just for you and me
be like sugarcane
sweet yet silent
don't get mixed up with bitter words
my beloved grows
right out of my own heart
how much more union can there be
Credits: "The Ecstasy of St. Theresa" by Gian Lorenzo Bernini; "Le
Guêpier" by William Bouguereau; "Look at Love" by Mevlana Jalaluddin
Rumi, translated by Nader Khalili
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