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Old 12-11-2014, 07:37 AM   #1
fatebass21
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At the current time my professional life is very stressful. My employer and the client that I work with have become engaged in a legal battle and it is difficult for me to not be put in the middle by either side. On a daily basis for the last week or so I have had to stay relaxed and calm during this stressful situation all the while not knowing if it will effect my employment with my company (I was hired as a remote employee to work with this client; if the client goes away I worry that I will be out of a job). I am recently married and just finished my graduate studies. The school loan payments will be starting and having stable employment at this time is a source of stress for me.

The universe works in mysterious ways and this all started about a week ago which is the same time that I returned to training full time. I think deep down I could see the writing on the wall between these two parties and knew I would need to refocus my energies in a productive way internally.

The non-aggressive philosophy that aikido teaches has benefits that can be applied outside of the school as we all know. That said, I am curious to know everyone's experience with applying the philosophical principles of aikido to business.

What is your experience? Do you consciously apply aikido philosophy on a daily basis at work? Or do you not even acknowledge the principles 'off-the-mat'?

Interested in all comments on this topic.

I am off to work.....going to try to be the circle to their triangle.....

Chris Sawyer
Fountain Valley, CA
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Old 12-11-2014, 08:08 AM   #2
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There's a lot to be learned in all budo that can help in confrontations outside the dojo. One thing I learned very early on was to be conscious of when someone is trying to use their physical presence to dominate or intimidate in a non-physical encounter. I think everyone is aware of this on some level, but I found that training took this awareness from an uncomfortable, under-the-surface "something is wrong" feeling, to a conscious, "wow, this guy is looming over me, what does he think he's gonna do, bop me on the head if he doesn't get his way?" So, it went from a vague unstated threat to an amusingly empty attempt at a threat.

In aikido, specifically, I think it's helpful in learning to not be reactive. My sensei often issues corrections in the form of a comical imitation of what we're doing, and one that shows up all too frequently is the "blundering rush": reaching outside your space, frantically grabbing at parts of your opponent, etc. Sensei says, "'When' is most important, 'where' comes next, and 'what' is after that." Focusing on getting the "when" right means choosing the right moment, which means not blindly reacting -- and choosing the right moment really improves the likelihood of choosing a good "where" and "what".
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Old 12-12-2014, 07:10 PM   #3
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Re: Aikido in Business

Thanks for the comments Mary this makes a lot of sense. I can definitely see parallels in aikido and everyday life where, as you said, it is important to learn to not be reactive.

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