I was being negative??? if you like it -- go for it. i was speaking for me -- not for you.
While I realise that by quoting you I may have given you the impression that I was specifically saying that you were being negative, the presence of a paragraph break was intended to sepparate my response to the quoted text (your response) from my overall response to the entire discussion. I am sorry that this was not clear enough. However I do wonder how your response is helpful in answering the original question.