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06-21-2004, 04:24 PM
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Dojo: Aikido Musubi Ryu/ Yoshin Wadokan
Location: Hamilton
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Argh! Grading tonight!
Hello all.
This is just an expulsion of nervous energy, so forgive me.
I am grading to 3rd kyu tonight. This will be my 4th grading since starting at my club, you would think I'd be getting my nerves under control but, no.
The last week has been a roller-coaster ride from composed to freaking out. I'm quietly confident but even as early as it is in the day (my grading is after work), I'm already starting to amp.
My whole body is abuzz with nervous energy. At this stage I'll have burnt out by tonight.
Can some of you suggest what you do to compose yourself before a grading.
I know my nerves will settle after about 15 minutes into the test, but that usually means my first 15 minutes of technique is utter rubbish.
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06-21-2004, 05:28 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2001
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Re: Argh! Grading tonight!
I don't have any helpful advice, but good luck on your test
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06-21-2004, 05:35 PM
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Dojo: Aikido of Midland, Midland TX
Location: Midland Tx
Join Date: Oct 2002
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Re: Argh! Grading tonight!
Warm, relaxing shower......massage, err, ummmmm "pleasant company".
These things help this old married man calm down and try to center.
It is also cool to spend a while warming up on the mat before hand. Our Sensei usually gives us about an hour to "burn off" whatever nervous energy we need to. Then test. (Works pretty well)
Good luck.......(BREATHE)
Lan
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06-22-2004, 12:01 AM
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Dojo: Seiwa Dojo and Southside Dojo
Location: Battle Creek & Kalamazoo, MI
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Re: Argh! Grading tonight!
Well, it's too late for this advice to be used this time but maybe for later
I like to go into the dojo a couple of hours early and clean it. I'm there by myself and I keep it quiet. I dust, vacuum, take out the trash....whatever. It keeps me moving and done with the right mind is very um, cleansing...ooh, bad pun
Bronson
p.s. How'd the test go?
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06-22-2004, 08:40 AM
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Dojo: Aikido of Midland
Location: Midland, Texas
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Re: Argh! Grading tonight!
Dean,
How's Aikido these days? Had I been around in time, I would have recommended all the above but also some time to meditate and calm the mind. When I first started aikido, I would get all nervous and worked up and so I would sit quietly for about 10 minutes before the actual test and calm everything down. Sensei picked up on my doing this and the next test or two he made that a part of the pre-test preparation.
Just sit quietly and let all the noises and outside distractions wash over and away from you. And... yeah, don't forget to breath.
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06-22-2004, 04:30 PM
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Dojo: Aikido Musubi Ryu/ Yoshin Wadokan
Location: Hamilton
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Re: Argh! Grading tonight!
Thanks for the support and advice everyone.
As it turned out my afternoon became busy at work and my mind was distracted from the grading. This was a good thing. When I finished work and went to the dojo, I was in a much more relaxed state.
It turned out to be the most relaxing grading I'd gone through so far, its tempting to say it was easy. It wasn't exactly that, but I didn't mind if I made a mistake. I went with the flow, so to speak.
I was grading to 3rd kyu with one other and we had a 3rd kyu grading to 2nd kyu as well. So it was only three of us. I liked that.
I learnt a lot from the grading as well. First and foremost, technical errors became obvious (that goes without saying), I walked away from the test knowing what I need to work on. Secondly, the other aikidoka that were used as uke really performed well! They were all kyu grades lower than those grading and everyone lifted to meet the skill level. I was impressed with all of them.
Thanks again guys.
Dean.
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"flows like water, reflects like a mirror, and responds like an echo." Chaung-tse
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06-22-2004, 07:12 PM
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Dojo: Aikido of Silicon Valley
Location: Fremont, CA
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Re: Argh! Grading tonight!
Dean, it's probably too late for advice. But if you play any musical instrument, you could try it.
From my own experience playing something before a big event helps a lot to relax your mind and straigten you thoughts. I personally play violin.
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06-23-2004, 05:55 PM
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Location: The South, USA
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Re: Argh! Grading tonight!
(Only just saw this thread)
Congrats on your grading, Dean! I'm glad it went well and that you felt relaxed. Congrats on making it to 3rd kyu!!!
Robyn
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