We are not bossy! I order you to stop thinking that and give you 50 push ups as punishment
Anyways, the only time I felt confidant in aikido was when I was a beginner. I had no idea that everyone was really taking ukemi for me (I thought I was some kind of genius). Anyways, like a previous poster said, the more I learned, the more I could see how many mistakes I was making and how off I am.
It is important to believe in yourself, and to believe you are capable of learning (this applies to everything...not just martial arts).