Yeah, I was rude toward Aleksey. Aleksey, I apologize for my sharp words toward you. I have a brutal head cold and it makes me kinda' irritable. Again, sorry for my rudeness.
Chuck, I'm not suggesting one lose one's sense of self; just the part that renders us arrogant, fearful, and myopic. I have met some astounding martial artists who demonstrate unconsciously what I am talking about. They are self-effacing, mild, good-humoured people who never let on by word or deed that they are as skilled as they are. It seems as if their power/skill gives them the freedom to release the negative aspects of ego I have described.
Thanks to those who have weighed in on this topic. Some good comments.