I think that your points to a large degree are things that you as a person value and seek rather than being descriptive of Aikido as a whole.
As for instance Demian Maia shows us, you can compete in the UFC and still value much of the same things that you do.
Hear Maias statements after his great performance against Chael Sonnen in the last UFC.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yc49loAFRxE