Thank's everybody. I'm even more confused now - but at a much higher level
Kind of resembles my aikido after a seminar....
If nobody else adds something to this discussion, then I guess I'll go for the Tozando polyester hakama. It's affordable, and I am concidering getting an iaito from them as well. Perhaps I'll also try to hem up my old homemade cotton kendo-hakama to se if it'll do for Aikido. Not very pleased with the way it fit's though, and it is awfully heavy, but it might be good during the winter when the singlelayer windows of the dojo seems to let the heat out but keep the humidity in.....
See you all