Perhaps the next poll should be has anybody hurt you because they were too deep in their own fantasy of power to take proper care.
I don't think any of the times I have been injured, my partner was thinking about breaking me. However I have been hurt several times with people who were acting out martial arts fantasies, rather than caring for their partner.
Just to be clear, this was in a previous dojo than ASV, so don't blame my current training partners, (or teachers).
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