Cassia Rose Heatley
Interesting, why do you think so? Comparatively to Aikido? On account of the posts I've made here? Or due to being a woman (where women generally do not orient toward the more violent martial arts).
No, nothing gender related at all.
Judo is hard on the body and, from your posts, I think you still do not have the athleticism and thoughness required. BJJ, as grondahl pointed, is softer and in some aspects more similar to Aikido than to Judo.