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Old 03-03-2009, 10:51 AM   #16
Janet Rosen
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Re: Master/slave relationship and Instructor with ego

There is another path, esp if the barking is coming from a sr student, not the dojocho/chief instructor: calmly tell the barker that you are happy to participate in dojo chores, but that you will not be addressed that way in any circumstances and that if he cannot address you with basic human respect you will stop doing whatever chore you are in the middle of.
This will be hard but it may be just the training you are looking for as a mild mannered person.

Janet Rosen
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