Hya Krystal
I understand : )
I'm going to step away from here a little bit as I'm not going to get into any kind of debate over this. I wanted to share someone with exceptional skill and dedication to the art...someone that many people may be very happy to see.
Simply put though, If you practise with as many people as you can, then you'll find things that will work very well on some people and not so well with others... knowing/sensing immediately what you can do in any given moment with any kind of person is part of the long journey
Lee