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Old 12-07-2005, 02:07 PM   #4
Trish Greene
Dojo: Aikido-Kajukenbo Self Defense Center
Location: Boise
Join Date: Sep 2005
Posts: 98
Re: A different kind of ukemi

You are being very harsh on yourself, you seem to be taking the responsibility personally for someone elses lack of motivation. You are not the one that isn't performing her duties and I am sure that being the friend you are to her, you have given her several opportunities to change. You cannot change people, they have to change themselves, you are not responsible for other people's actions. Maybe in the big scheme she is suppose to be let go so that she can learn from this experience?

But it doesn't make it any easier when you care about that person....

Sometimes they have to take ukemi to understand the move...
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