Gotta say, what business is it of anyone elses?
The direct participants are all adults. I'm sure they'll figure out the best way to do things. Having it bandied about here does what, exactly?
I know this sounds a little harsh, and I don't mean any disrepect, but having been in these situations myself, I can only think that my reaction to reading about it from someone not directly involved on a public board would be...not well received.
Someone else's issues with loyalty are just that...someone else's issues. I'd prefer to focus on my on issues...of which there are many, I'm afraid.