My dojo's policy is that everybody is welcome. Does that make it a swinging kind of dojo?
Marc Abrams
ps- on the serious side. Last time I checked, a dojo was a place to study martial arts and any interpersonal stuff was secondary to the main focus of being at the dojo. If a dojo has some official policy regarding what type of consensual adult relationships people engage in, then my first question is: Are the studying the martial art of love?