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Old 06-19-2005, 05:08 PM   #6
giriasis
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Re: what would you have done?

~~sympathetic rant on~~
First of all, she was incredibly rude and has no right to point things out like that. I don't care what her friend did. Has she ever had the challenge of having to deal with her weight? It doesn't sound like it. I have, and I know the hurt and pain of the "well-meaning" others can be. Tell her to stick it.
~~sympathetic rant off~~

Unfortunately those who do not understand the struggle will always say something down right rude with the intention of "helping you out." I'm sure if you asked her about it she would profess that she wasn't being rude at all.

It sounds like you are doing a lot of things right. Keep it up and keep moving forward. Don't let the sabotage of others get in your way of improving your life.

(((((((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))))))))

Anne Marie Giri
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