p.s.s. - for clarification, this was NOT meant to pick on you Dieter, or anyone else.
I appreciate all your comments - Just trying to keep them to topic, as when it comes to how someone 'should' do something (even if it is a good suggestion), everyone has an idea - without knowing the dynamics, or rather without having walked in the other persons shoes. (And each person is different no matter how similar the path.
No hard feelings Dalen.
I have my reasons why I did not response on topic, but I am not going to post them here. Your question has been answered and this thread can end.
If I can get my thoughts together, I will send you a PM.