what is the correct way to grip the uke hand when we do the kote gaeshi?
And which kind of kote gaeshi below here is better? I have 2 sensei at my dojo and both studied the different style, 1 is aikikai and 1 is shishiya-nishio. I often get confused and don't know which is better to do and to learn? I just want to stick to 1 to get a the good habit.
shishiya- nishio way
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rpK2C4H8OR8
aikikai one ... I think
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ll1GCzl4Bxg
In addition, how the leg should move? step back or step in front in order not to get hit by uke's free hand?
Thank you so much!