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Old 11-12-2010, 05:52 AM   #14
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Re: Mindful Modeling and Mentoring

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Fred Little wrote: View Post
Without regard for the values for which the variables "x" and "y" may be place markers, or the broader subject under review, it has been my general experience that making arguments about what "should or should not" be the case rarely has much utility unless I'm looking for an amen from someone in my own choir.
There's an Aikido choir? How come no ones tells me about these things?

IMHO, as a therapist I often find that people are struggling to find the rights answers because they are asking the wrong questions.

IMHO, "should" just usually means it isn't the way I want it to be. We "should" be better role models an mentors means we already know that its not that way and we are falling short.

I do believe we/I can do better.

Thoughts?

Lynn Seiser PhD
Yondan Aikido & FMA/JKD
We do not rise to the level of our expectations, but fall to the level of our training. Train well. KWATZ!
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