Sounds like she doesn't need your advice after all, Tom28
...just the same moral support that one wants from any friend. It's a shame that our society is still such that your friend takes a certain level of objectification for granted
, and I'm still disappointed in the other students for not saying anything - but then again, it sounds like somebody probably did say something. I hope your friend becomes more comfortable in the dojo and that the sensei becomes a better person for having her there,
voitokas