Sensei showed a technique and broke everyone into groups. We had "higher ranking students" walking around ready to help if anyone was having trouble. I was doing the technique and one of them came over to take ukemi for me and he stopped my technique by being very resisting and rigid. He told me that I needed to do such and such... So I did such and such and I noticed he suddenly became a wet noodle, there was zero resistance,
I was, then, able to throw him with much ease
Now I don't know if I learned the "right way" or did I learned "it's my way or no way"