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Old 12-22-2002, 01:06 AM   #23
PhilJ
 
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When I made it shodan, I was certainly surprised by how elated I felt. I thought, "Man, I made it! I can have a class!"

Maybe other folks feel that, like everyone seems to concur upon. It's unfortunate, but it happens.

Thankfully, I wised up, looked back and saw some things I regretted. I came to a conlusion similar to Lynn's: it's not the journey or the destination that matter, it's ultimately both.

Sadly, you cannot force someone to be humble. I know some VERY thick-headed shodan because they have the conception they are "done" and now "teachers". You could hit 'em with a tire iron and still not get through.

The best I can do is say my piece, and try to show someone what will result from their behavior, whether through technique or anecdote. If not for their benefit, then their students', because those shodan are a danger to them.

When all else fails, I remember what my teachers have told me: When you see a monkey at the zoo, acting like a monkey, are you surprised?

Phillip Johnson
Enso Aikido Dojo, Burnsville, MN
An Aikido Bukou Dojo
http://www.aikidobukou.com
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