When bringing up the abstract concepts of - and I quote - "masculine and feminine energy", yin and yang, inexplicably triggers you into bringing up "oppression", don't shift blame on someone else for your irrational outburst.
And yet here you are attributing an "irrational outburst" to someone quite rightly bringing up archaic gender values when someone mentions something using archaic gender values.
Which itself is an archaic gender value. Women get to be "irrational" and "hysterical". Men get to be "logical".
So thank you for proving her point for her.