I'm sorry, I just can't believe I forgot one of the most important aspects of nage's Ki, conicidently it's my worst feature,
SOFTNESS, SOFTNESS, SOFTNESS, SOFTNESS, SOFTNESS, SOFTNESS, SOFTNESS, SOFTNESS, SOFTNESS, SOFTNESS, SOFTNESS, SOFTNESS, SOFTNESS, SOFTNESS, SOFTNESS, SOFTNESS, SOFTNESS, SOFTNESS, SOFTNESS, SOFTNESS, SOFTNESS, SOFTNESS, SOFTNESS, SOFTNESS, SOFTNESS, SOFTNESS!
If you have never trained with anyone who uses softness, I suggest doing so. It will impress you, to say the least.
They say training is the only way to build softness. However, I've encountered people naturally soft. Not I. Of course this is also one of those mind/body problems...
Thanks, and stay soft!