My short (and maybe moderate) term goal in learning aikido is I want to be able to control people without causing pain. In long term, well, I just want to be a better man through learning aikido, not only phisically but also mentally and in character as well.
Wynand, don't worry about your frustrated feeling. just remember that ours and their philosophy is completely different, its natural that people tend to deny something that against their beliefs.
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