Hi there,
so your sensei passed away and his widow-spouse is left with to dojo business ?
Well, I could imagine, that this might be a task a bit above her abilities, having to deal with one´s own pain and struggling to keep up the dojo as he would have done.
Try Aiki!
I could imagine that a person in that situation needs some help, but would not accept it from other yudansha because of fear they might take the staff out of her hands.
(when it comes to matters of influence, money and power, even high ranking Aikido people seem to forget they ever heard about such weird things as harmony)
So maybe this leaves three possibilities:
a) think of Aiki and help
b) ignore and concentrate on your own training
c) leave
regards
Hagen
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