Re: dojo frat boys
Anon, from your post I know who's dojo you are at. Wonderful group of people. Work within the system in the dojo to get any problem resolved, but personally, knowing who they are, I would trust this to work itself out in the not too distant future.
This type of circumstance is very frustrating, but it will subside over time, and believe it or not, you will actually grow from it.
wishing you all the best! Rachel