Mark Dobro (Doka) wrote:
This is not "wrong"!
As Sh'te/Tori/Nage, we should not expect Uke to be right there where he should be,
First of all, you really don't have to shout at me.
Second of all, I am not a beginner. I have been working for years just as hard on being a proper uke as I have being a proper nage. We are partners working together to learn. There is a difference between me as uke making a decision that my partner can take a particular challenge and between me just plain doing a crappy job of being uke.