Much good advice here.
Speaking for myself, and only for myself, I no longer train with people who do not have my safety as their primary concern. If I ever think that my safety is secondary to anything with partner, I will politely let them know how I feel and ask them to adjust our training accordingly. That is their first and only warning. Should it happen again, I won't train with them, regardless of their rank, their status, their reputation, or their lineage.
That's what works for me.
I hope you heal quickly and reach a beneficial resolution to this problem.