Re: one moment
I had and continue to have lots of little moments here and there. I also have some horrible days - natures way of keeping the scale in check.
I recall a argument that wasn't. I was in car with my girlfriend, on one of those rare occassions when we irritate the bejesus out of each other. I was just about to say something horrid when, lo and behold, my body breathed, the tension drained away and without any emotion other than sincere care, I managed to end the conflict without bad feelings. For once, I said the right thing, at the right time and in the right way. A first!!
I'm still not sure how that happened - i've not had it happen since ;-(
( I could also tell you abt the first "perferct horrible moment", but that one's kinda personal and all ;-)