Re: How do you deal with.....
I cuss at myself for my crap ukemi, crap zanshin, generally crap aikido. All my dojo pals but for my partner take it in stride, shee thinks I am cussing at her. Pain in the ass. Cant a girl kiai quietly once in a while?
It almost certainly is not about you. Talk to them about it the next time it happens. Dont let it affect your training much, other than to just ask what's up when cussy nage is cussing.