Makes sense, after all, budo is love
I'll tell you a secret, you know why folk have their ways of how a martial art should be and why they believe things should be as they see it? Answer: Because they luv it! Budo is luvvin it
does that means doing budo is making love? however, isn't budo means stopping the trust, and wouldn't that interfere with love making? then one needs to ask about how to making love while wearing those funny skirts? and since the majority of budo folks are men, wouldn't that make us go both ways?