Unless someone is hurling poop, spears or missiles at your home or person, no one is at war with you, Graham. But if anyone is after your wimmin, perhaps we should be asking, "how do we define marital?"
Makes sense, after all, budo is love
I'll tell you a secret, you know why folk have their ways of how a martial art should be and why they believe things should be as they see it? Answer: Because they luv it! Budo is luvvin it