Phi wrote: you know who else also good as keeping secrets? your grandma and/or your mom. there are cooking recipes that they won't tell folks, not even their own children or grand children. or they might told you about it, but you weren't interested in cooking so you don't care and end up not knowing.
I'm still trying to pry my grandmother's struedel recipe out of my cousin's wife's hands. She's the only one who has it now.