this is not anything special. It's normal!
Hmmmm, I agree entirely with what everyone else has said to you.
I hold Ikeda sensei as the gold standard for being able to use and apply IS in an Aikido framework - I have NEVER felt any other Aikido teacher with the skill set he has and definitely no Aikido student.
If it was normal, everyone would be able to do it. They can't. Why not? It's not normal that's why.
You seem to have a real issue trying to meet any of these people, I'm assuming you've at least made the effort to train with the one Aikido teacher that everyone seems to agree has the goods?