I don't think that's what is being articulated here by Jeremy. If your center is so profoundly non-resistant, you don't have to move it - anything anyone puts into you just echos back - mountain echo. So as Jeremy says, there is no competition, they just feel themselves mirrored in you - they never get to tag your center.
I was not responding to what Jeremy was saying.
Though I guess I could ask in what way this type of reflection or mirroring results in connection or unity?