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Old 09-14-2012, 02:25 AM   #33
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Re: Even at Boot Camp...no one can reach inside you and make you feel. Your feelings

Guiding, controlling and manipulating are similar, but they could convey a difference in intention.
Guiding could imply patient benevolence, controlling could imply impatience or indifference and manipulating could imply calculation (or worse).

I'm a father and I've been a high school teacher for some years. Guiding may be the ideal for a parent or a teacher, but I think that some controlling and manipulation is unavoidable in practice.
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