Even at Boot Camp...no one can reach inside you and make you feel. Your feelings are in you.
Uke can resist but the resistance that nage feels is nage's feeling
That is exactly what I said.
I still stand by it. I meant no offense to any one.
I am talking about this in the context of Aikido training.
The reference to boot camp took it out of the aikido context, that's the problem.
I already said how I feel about "no one can make you feel" statements and their danger of coming across as glib, so no need to say more here.