Re: Masakatsu Agatsu
Contradictory forces? Surely you mean complimentary.
I don't think masakatsu agatsu happens instantly either. Just like the buddhist eightfold path.
I would say that until you achieve it or when you achieve it you will actually see that there is no enemy.
From there you can see and reach the others' self whether they are enlightened or not ie: despite what they consider their self or indeed consider you to be.
Being true self and reminding other of their true self is win, win and thus a state of continuous winning.
Thus enters the spirit of joy.