Chris, we need to talk about your practice. first it was erotic weapons, then graduated to using riding crop? soon it's going to be S&M bondage and chain and goth and so on. personally, i am starting to worry about you. i think you are taking the whole idea "aikido is all about love" a bit too far. isn't cross dressing enough as it is?
My practice is geared for the needs of people protection - my job. So, I thought you of all people would appreciate this. Three weeks ago at the Black and White Ball (San Francisco Symphony Benefit where 3,000 people donate and great music was enjoyed by all).
Party on, Dude