Your reasoning, David, is like blaming a woman wearing a skirt for being raped.
Mary, that is a low, unworthy and Foul thing to say.
You have no right to say that and when you do, you seriously undermine your image as a responsible thinker or any kind of serious person.
I demand an apology and I am not kidding!
That is entirely uncalled for, dishonest and insulting.
I want an apology NOW!
Our responses and actions reflect on those who make them not on those who supposedly provoke them.
Your statement above is a glaring example of exactly that.
There is no excuse for such an insipid comment here.