IMHO, if we talk about unconditional, it implies conditions. If we talk about conditions, it implies the unconditional.
Likewise, holding on implies letting go and vice versus, complete implies incomplete, and truth implies falsehoods.
I would rather have a set rules and conditions I can live with and by.
To truly give a gift is unconditional. To truly grow is unconditional.
One implies the other is indeed a rope trick.
This is my unconditional gift of understanding.