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Old 02-15-2012, 02:29 PM   #52
"AikidoObsessed"
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Re: HELP! I'm being bullied in the dojo!

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Phi Truong wrote: View Post
are you sure it's jealousy? what do you know about his life or anything about him other than his practice at the dojo? he could be bully or he could be not. sometimes, thoughts started out good in the head, by the time they reached the lips, things didn't sound the same. i remembered one time (ok, more than one) i was infatuated with a girl, the words came out of my lips just ended up completely wrong. so he doesn't practice as often, he could be working, school, and various other things that kept him from coming to practice. it could happen; thus my question, what do you know about him, of him?
read this story http://easternhealingarts.com/Articles/softanswer.html

in Sun Tzu's art of war, you must know yourself, and you must know others, before you can win. know either and you lose. knowing yourself, your true self, is the hardest, because you just met your worst enemy and your best of friend.
I don't know for sure, but this didn't start until I started climbing the ladder, and I haven't said anything mean to him. It was the only thing I could think of, but that doesn't make it right.

Thanks so much.
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