I ask 'Do you do it or do you live it?'
Walk to talk.
I often think that when I can feel myself doing the technique, I am probably doing it wrong. When I don't feel it, but let the other person fall, I jut might be headed in the right direction.
When they feel me doing the technique, I am doing/making it happen, its probably wrong. When they fall down and just wonder what happened, I just might be headed in the right direction.
Less is more.
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