I have an issue training with women, luckily its not a big one because we only have about two girls in the dojo.
The issue is not a sexual one though, I can make the seperation between sexual intimacy and aikido intimacy.
The issue is the whole 'never hurting a girl' thing that I was raised with. I sometimes catch myself going a bit easy on the girls when practicing with them and I am a bit scared that they are picking up on this and that it might hurt their feelings because they might think that I think they are unable to take the falls.
Anyone else having a case like this?