Re: Open Letter to My Students
It's me, the outsider here. Hope you don't mind me giving a few thoughts from the outside.
I think I understand what you're saying here and agree that now and again we have to do something we don't feel quite comfortable with, with regards to others. I call this 'time for the sword' albeit in essence it's a compassionate sword really.
That's my summary of the above, read with admiration.
That brings me to solution. We can't really expect others to have Aikido as their world and yet we may expect certain things from them. This as I see it is the dilemma you face.
Maybe it's a lesson for you to learn? Hear me out on this.
It is your 'world' your 'dream' that you are creating and running with goals for the future. Now in your world the rules are put there by you and when things don't go as planned it's review time. I say this just so you know how I'm thinking and that it moved me to write.
Your communication alone may be enough for the future plans. If you feel it isn't then how about this idea:
You could have it as part of your grading system that all students at the different levels have to have attended a certain amount of seminars to progress.
This of course would work both ways, it would mean you have to do more and more have to attend.
Note please this is not my way but given as food for thought that may help or not.
At worst it's just unasked for banter from that guy in the hat.