Graham I don't think so
Pauliina you look very nice
Tim you are very helpful, as you just showed in another thread
And I'm very curious about peoples motives.
The other day coming from the beach I had a nice experience that made me think of this topic. There were four 18-20 year old german girls and without knowing that I would understand them, they said: she looks nice and asked me to take a photo of them. So did you ever think about how people see you?
Yes. I find it quite funny. Firstly I would say worrying about it is what leads to vanity. So to not care what people think about me or why is rule number one.
Secondly then I have rule number two so to speak which is to always treat others with respect, be helpful, receive with love, and grant them the right to be.
Thirdly I acknowledge that most people are into image and so they see an image and put you in a box. Shallow but amusing.
It's a good topic really because all the great con men have a great image and thus people are led by it because that's what they 'think' with.