Hmm, you've got me thinking. Instead of arguing with my husband I should just grab his wrist and try shiho nage. From the verbal to the physical in one easy step. My assistant always told the new students "You don't get to grab AND throw" but in this case it seems like the best way to regain marital harmony....
Me and the wife seldom argue, just beat the Sh1t out of each other, then shake hands...........
After all she is a 3rd Dan and still packs a wallop